We all wanted to grow up faster so that we
can move out of home into our own space. This was a motivating factor to work
harder in school as "work hard and get a good job" didn't make sense
since all adults seem rather disappointed with their jobs.

Many of us had the image of a gated house with garage space and a garden :), now we get to understand that even being able to live in apartment is a great thing !
I moved to the capital of Kenya a few
years ago and lived with relatives and friends for as long as I could remember,
regardless of how hard I had worked in school, it takes time to be able to
sustain one's self financially unless it is being supported by other people.
Which beats the purpose of independence and the people supporting you will
always put you on a leash one way or another.
About two years ago I was blessed enough
to be able to move out on my own and no matter how many stories I had heard
about living alone nothing prepared me for the amount of work it takes, on the
flip side the joy of making or not making decisions was amazing it was worth
all the bills.
The most disappointing part of moving out
in Nairobi is that when starting out you can only afford houses in certain
locations , this depends on whether you want to live near work or live slightly
further and commute for longer.
I have never been a fan of waking up in
the middle of the night to make it to work in time, so I chose the former; this
then means you pay more to live near town or business areas. After one year of
living near the noise and paying more than I care to , I decided to try
something new. Move away from work but closer to serenity , this comes cheaper
but means less hours of sleep. I am still trying to come to terms with the idea
of taking more than 20 minutes to the office, but I guess the experience away
from the noisy town area will be worth it in the end, we'll see.
Did I mention the one year I lived near
town, I had foolishly signed a lease that bound me to that house and if I moved
out earlier I would be penalized? True to their fears, I hated the
maintenance of the house after a few months, everything was falling apart and I
had to fix them, they basically bind you to a lease so that you can repair all
their cheap fixtures.
Every other month someone was moving out
because they did not see value for the money they were paying, some were
willing to forgo the deposit , others just didn't pay rent until they
were kicked out.
One year has never been so long for me,
the day I handed in my notice to vacate was one of the happiest for me
this year, I even paid rent before the other month started. Yes , you cannot
live on your deposit either! Such nonsense,
The houses away from town are in abundance
and better in quality it just depends on how much distance one is willing to
put between them and the city center. Usually it would be the most distance possible,
however in Kenya , the transport system does not support living far from the
business district and the roads are not built for the amount of traffic
we have.
For this reason I chose a place that can
give me serenity but not too far from the office, 7 kilometres is far enough so
I think. When I went house hunting, I was more open to living farther from the
road and looked at quite a few houses, I found one that blew me away from the
rest, it was just smaller than I had hoped. Other than that it would suffice
until I found a bigger one with better qualities.
I decided to pay for it the next week as
great houses depending on what your definition of great it, are taken very
fast. Not all landlords use quality material to finish off their houses , this
is rare and is only found very far away from the business district, in place
like Syokimau, Thika and the like , place that would take over 45 minutes to
get to town.
When I went to the agency's office to pay
for the house, I was armed with questions after my bad experience with the
current agency. To my shock the agency was very laissez- faire about
things , the ladies sitting at the reception had a to go into an office to
verify the answer to literally each and every question I had. This was very
annoying especially when we started talking if I can paint the house and
payment terms. Because I would like to add some color to the house and not have
white walls I need to pay another month's deposit. As for paying deposit for
the house, I was being told I have to pay the next month's rent yet I was going
to occupy the premises 3 weeks from the day in question. They were adamant that
they cannot take half the money and take the other half a week later.
To top it all up, once I finished the
discussion one hour later, I requested the account details as they initially
said I can issue a cheque then changed their minds that they don't do that for
first time clients, they told me to go bring the money to their office or a
bankers cheque . I was so furious, they seemed like legitimate business people
, however their backward behavior made me storm out of there and lose interest
in an amazing house.
The agency's incompetence and refusal to
embrace technology made me wonder if landlords know how much business they are
losing due to ignorance and unprofessionalism of agents. My heart broke for
landlords because a day has come when people who are willing to live far away
from town will not began agent despite how beautiful their houses are. It is
one thing to be thorough about who you lease a house to , it’s a totally different
thing to frustrate someone’s life by making up superficial rules like you
cannot pay rent via standing orders, or Mpesa because it is not a physical
paper!
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